The Art of Nonconformity » The Art of Radical Exclusion:
"...I sometimes practice the fine art of radical exclusion. This is where I deliberately ignore or decline any number of inputs, messages, or requests for my attention in order to focus on what I decide is more important.
Some people think this is rude, but I see it as directly related to fulfilling my primary commitments...
The application is that, from time to time, I close up. I don’t take any more inputs for a while. I learn to say these things, repeatedly:
Sorry, I can’t commit to that.
I regret I will not be able to meet your expectations.
I am working on other commitments that will not allow me to take on any additional tasks at this time.
Antisocial? Perhaps. Rigorous? Certainly.
But in the end, we make time for what’s important to us. To fulfill some commitments, others must be excluded. You can do this bit by bit, but sorting out each request requires the use of time and energy you’re trying to gain. If you make the time (there’s no such thing as “finding” the time), you might be surprised at how beneficial this is."
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