"There's nothing worse than enablers."

LIFT-RUN-BANG: 8 truths to live (and lift) by: " Be willing to hurt people you care about with honesty. If they care about you, they will forgive you for not bullshitting them. If you care about them, you won't enable their shit behavior by lying to them. There's nothing worse than enablers. These are the friends that never make you reexamine how you behave, how you treat people, and what your "weak points" are. In lifting it's the guy that lets you squat high all the while telling you what a "beast" you are. In life, it's the same friend that knows you're fucking someone over, yet agrees with all of your fucked up rationalizations as to why you're doing it. Don't surround yourself with enablers, and don't be one. If someone values your friendship they will also value your constructive criticism. If you lose a "friendship" because of it, then it wasn't much of a friendship to begin with."