Relaxed Focus: Today's Internets - "I ate way too much."

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Wonder Woman is about to have a very good, or very bad, day... all things considered.

Best Babysitter Ever.

Conventional wisdom is neither conventional, nor wise - Why People Cheat | The Blackdragon Blog:

"There’s a web site out there called Victoria Milan which, like Ashley Madison, is a dating site for married people who want to cheat. They recently did a survey of 4000 of their members, and the results were interesting...

This survey shows some more detail about the surface-level reasons why people cheat, and who they tend to cheat with.

Here are the findings:

1. Only 30 percent of cheating men are cheating with women younger than their partners. How often do men who date younger women get the vitriol from older women? “All you want is some young dumb hottie! All you care about is LOOKS!!! Shallow asshole!” Wrongo. Men date, and have sex with, women who are nice, not necessarily women who are hot.

...looks is not a primary factor. It’s one of those simple-but-hard-to-admit realities of modern life that men simply want to be with women who are nice to them. This survey shows 70% of men who cheat are having sex with women as old or order than their wives(!). This means cheating men are looking for something far beyond just a pretty face...

2. Only 26 percent of cheating men said their mistresses are more interesting than their partners. So not only is it not about looks, it’s also not about intelligence or depth...

3. Only 25 percent of cheating men said their mistresses are in better physical shape than their partners. Yet again, not about looks. Remember how shocked people were when Hugh Grant cheated on his super hot, perfect 10 wife (Elizabeth Hurley) with a fat, ugly prostitute? Or when Arnold knocked up his butt-ugly nanny while he was married to his hot, fit, intelligent, classy Kennedy wife?

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4. Over 60 percent of cheating women said their side-men are better looking than their partners, and 50 percent said their side-men were in better shape. Whoa! So now we switch over to cheating women, and everything reverses! Women are indeed going after men who are better looking then their husbands. But wait a minute! I thought men were the shallow horndogs and women were all into romance and depth and seeing past a person’s looks and stuff? Hmmm...

5. 89.6 percent of cheating women indicated that the man they’re cheating with makes them feel more appreciated than their partner. This should be no surprise. It’s not just about looks of course. I have said many times that the greatest thing a woman wants from a man is attention. More than love, more than security, more than sex, the woman in your life wants your attention. If, in a long boring monogamous relationship, a man drops off his attention, she’ll either divorce him or she’ll cheat on him with a better looking guy to get that attention she craves. (That’s not the only reason women divorce men. The biggest reason is they get bored with them, even if they provide the necessary attention, but we’ve discussed that one already...