Remember.

Awesome. True. [And even if it's not true. Pretend it is. Can't hurt.]

It's How You Put it Together...: Tahitian-Style Beach Pump:

"Many seeming disasters are ultimately blessings. I believe in a world of good and goodness. It's often darkest just before the dawn and you can come out of this stronger and wiser and perhaps in a few years you'll look back and have a compassionate laugh for yourself. When you're right in the middle it's difficult, but I suggest you see this as the middle of the story, not the end of the story yet."